Serving An 18 Month LDS Mission

In the LDS church, when a girl turns 21 she has the opportunity to choose to serve an 18 month, self-funded mission. I have wanted to go on a mission since I was a little girl. My parents both served a mission in Rome in the 1970's. In 2001-2002, my sister Letty served as a missionary in Hong Kong and my brother Algot in the Philippines. As soon as I turned 21 I submitted my papers. The Prophet and 12 Apostles determine through inspiration which of the more than 300 missions worldwide each missionary will be assigned. I was overjoyed when I opened my mission call and discovered that I was called to Rome, Italy! I feel immensely blessed and I feel that God has been preparing me to serve the Italian people. Each week, while I am on my mission, I will send my sister Letty an email and pictures to post on the blog. I won't see this blog till I come home, so I will be unable to directly respond to your comments until then. However, the sidebar will always have a current street address for me, and I promise I will respond to your letters! If you would rather write via email, just email your letter to my sister and she will print it out and send it me with her weekly snail mail!

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Random Pictures from Bari and Polignano, Italy

Me and Sorella Mikesell
Us at Matera
All 4 of us at Sorella Devanna's house
Me and Sorella Devanna
Us with Sorella Magno
Us with Enza bellomo. She is the sweetest :) 
Me at the Fiera del Levante here in Bari. This was at a Sangria stand :) 
This is still at the fair. With Sorella Marinella and Marianna Tonti from Poggiofranco! We were eating a riccia! So good :)
Me with Carmella Tarantino
Me in Bari città vecchia with a statue of San Nicola. It looks like he is making the peace sign :)
Sorella Ruppe, Sorella Mikesell, and Sorella Ghio in front of the Marnarid. A very famous candy store here in Bari. I love it in there. I love Bari!
2) Us at the Famiglia Diciolla for FHE
Ann and Letty I wore those sandals so much! They are my favorite. I hope you appreciate my tan lines :)
Me and Sorella Mikesell in Polignano
Me and Mikesell in Polignano
We all love each other
Graffiti in Polignano "There is nothing more epic than the sea"

Letter #4 and Pictures from Bari, Italy

Dear Family and friends,

This week has been so much fun but also a bit different. Some other missionaries outside our zone needed the car so President loaned it to them. This has given us a great opportunity to get to know the bus system of Bari and go by foot.

I love walking! I feel like I get to see so many more people and interact more with others. 

The other day, we were on splits and I was with Sorella Ruppe. We went to go see an inactive sister in the Poggiofranco ward. Tina Tarantino and her 91 year old mother, Carmella. As soon as we sat down at their house, Tina turns to me and asks, "Did your father serve here 40 years ago?" I responded yes. She told me that you taught her and her mother. Tina would have been 17 at the time!! It was so wonderful. She is pretty negative toward the church. But the whole time she would say random things like ... "You smile just like your father!" or "Your eyes crinkle like your father's." It was wonderful to meet her. Dad, do you remember her?

Also mom and Dad, My companion, Sorella Mikelle Mikesell, is cousins with Rock and Joy Erickson from St. Louis!! How cool is that!

Mom, I don't know if Sorella di Cataldo still lives here. I think she moved to the north. The other week there was a marriage. Clarissa Mongelli, and Fabio Di Cataldo got married. Their civil marriage was done in our church building and last Tuesday they went to the Switzerland Temple. I am pretty sure she is related to them. But I don't know those families. I have also not heard from Francesco Bellomo, but I will keep my eyes peeled.
Us with Sorella Bellomo at the wedding of Clarissa Mongelli and Fabio Di Cataldo
Us with the Bride!
 BIG NEWS: 

1) Mom and Dad today is Grazia Bellomo's birthday. She is turning 82. She wants to call you guys on Skype. We set a time for Ott 4th at 7pm Italy time. 12pm your time. Will you be on the internet! And on skype? She really wants to talk with you.

2) Also Sorella Ruppe wants to go work in Alaska. Do you still have connections in alaska. If you do start buttering them up so that a super nice Italian missionary could come and work for them :) or live with them.


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Letter #3 from Bari, Italy

Dear Family and friends,
 
I am so grateful for you all! This week has been really good. This week God has taught me that He LOVES His children and that He knows us individually. There were two specific experiences this week that emphasized this to me
 
First, Sorella Mikesell and I had a lesson planned with 2 investigators, a mother and son. The son is in his late 40's. We had taught the Restoration lesson earlier and we planned to go and explain the Book of Mormon further. When we arrived, the son was not there. He had been unable to come. But we were there with the mom and her sister (who is a member). We thought this was perfect because we wanted to gauge how the mother was understanding the lessons. We started asking her if she had kept her commitments and what she had liked in the Restoration opuscolo. Based on her questions we did a quick review of the restoration, but the Spirit led us to focus on priesthood. Sorellla Mikesell bore her testimony about how the priesthood has blessed her life. As we were sitting there the idea came to me. "Go and sit closer to the mom. Leave your seat and go sit closer." So I did.
 
As I was sitting there, I talked to this woman clearly about eternal families and that through the restored priesthood we can be with our families forever. I bore testimony that her husband, who is dead, wants to be with her forever. As we were talking, it came to her saying a prayer to know if what we were saying was true. She initially refused. She said, "I can't with my health." With a little coaxing she started to pray. It was the sweetest simplest prayer ever. The Spirit poured into the room. Between her faltering words, I felt that it had been a long time since she had talked with God and HE was ECSTATIC to hear from her. As she ended her prayer we were all in tears. It was a simple moment but I will not forget it.
 
Second, earlier in the week I was having a hard time. A lot of insecurities had arisen. I felt like I had been forgotten, and that I had not done anything important here, on my mission. I knew these thoughts were from Satan, but I was having a hard time making them go away. Then the other day I was reading in Alma 29:11-14.
 

11 Yea, and I also remember the captivity of my fathers; for I surely do know that the aLord did deliver them out of bondage, and by this did establish his church; yea, the Lord God, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, did deliver them out of bondage.
12 Yea, I have always remembered the captivity of my fathers; and that same God who adelivered them out of the hands of the Egyptians did deliver them out of bbondage.
13 Yea, and that same God did establish his church among them; yea, and that same God hath called me by a aholy calling, to bpreach the word unto this people, and hath given me much success, in the which my joy is full.
14 But I do not joy in my own asuccess alone, but my joy is more full because of the success of my brethren, who have been up to the land of Nephi.

I realized that the same God of Abraham and Isaac has called me, like he called Alma. God has "given me much success" (Alma 29:13) and "my joy is full!" Immediately these verses became very personal. I know it was God telling me that HE had called me, and if I was obedient, HE would bless me with joy and with "success".


I was so happy. I realized that I had a long way to go, but I do find pure joy in the success and efforts of other missionaries, and I am honored to work with them. Then another depressing thought came into my mind, "but your part is not important." In that exact moment, I was going to read a recent General Conference talk (I am trying to read all of the April 2013 conference before the next General Conference.) Right after this thought came, I turned to the talk I needed to read. It was by Elaine S. Dalton. I read the heading and I felt like God was saying it to me

"As daughters of GOD, we are each unique and different ... and yet our PART MATTERS because WE MATTER!" 

When I read that I knew that everything I have done on my mission has mattered. Every smile, every door, every conversation, every lesson has mattered because I, personally, matter to the Lord. It is hard for me to fully express this experience but it was very beautiful. And it was just for me! I am so grateful for my Heavenly Father who loves me enough to worry about how I am feeling, and to send me these little moments, which are big to me.
 
Today I read another great talk that I invite you all to read, "Forget me Not" by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. You find it in the November 2011 Ensign\Liahona.  It was amazing.
 
I love you all so much and I feel blessed to be God's missionary and to have this "holy calling"
 
Lots of love,
 
Sorella Preston

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Letter #2 from Bari, Italy

Dear Family and Friends!!!

I hope you guys are all doing well. I am loving Bari. Sunday was the best. I got to see all the members and friends I left here. It felt like a family reunion. Everyone was so confused. They thought I had finished my mission (and was visiting) not that I had been transferred to the ward again. 

I am back in the same ward again. So Mom, I am (still) not in Francesco Bellomo or Sorella Magno's ward. But I did see Sorella Magno this Sunday at a baptism in the Poggiofranco ward (the other ward). 
Carmen's baptism in the Poggiofranco ward

One of the inactives that we had worked with a lot has started coming back to church and in August she went to the temple to be sealed to her husband. She is the sweetest woman ever. And now she is on fire!! We have started teaching a lot of her family. She has a different spirit. She just glows - I love it!! 

My new companion is wonderful, Sorella Mikelle Mikesell. She is 25 and so funny. I feel like I just get to hang out with Letty and Ann all the time. I am used to having a big sister!! But she is not commanding or supervising!!  She is one of the funniest people I have ever met. She helps me laugh at myself. And we have a lot of things in common. And she wants to go to medical school and become an OB\GYN.

We were talking one day and I think I know what I want to study and do with my life when I get home. I just feel this huge confirmation that this is what my gift is. But it does not matter and I will tell you when I get back :) 

This week we have seen so many miracles. Monday we went to go visit the above mentioned member's family. She has a sister who has a lot of health problems and we go teach her sister. Usually some of her sister's kids are there helping and they stay for the lessons. On Monday, Michele was there. He is very intellectual. But there was a great spirit and I know he felt it. We taught the plan of salvation because that is what we planned to do. But he had a lot of questions about the restoration. So we are going tonight to teach the restoration.  I am very excited :) We also hope that Michele's sister comes again. She has come to discussions a lot in the past. She acts distant and disinterested, but she waits in the other room and listens and is there at the house for every lesson. We are very excited because we can see how God is working with this family!

I love you all so much. And I wish I could write more!

Love, Sorella Preston

P.S. Mom, did you wear name tags during your mission? Were they required? What did they look like? Because in some of your mission fotos it looks like you don't have one.

Sorella Mikesell (my new companion) and I
Sorella Mikesell and Preston in Bari, Italy

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Letter #1 from Bari, Italy

Dear Family,

I am so excited! You cannot believe it! I have been transferred to the last place I would have ever guessed. As transfers were approaching I thought of all the possibilities. I could stay in Cosenza with Sorella Worsham. I could train in Cosenza. I could receive another collega. I could be transferred to any number of cities. I could open a city. I could open and train again. And the list goes on.

Well, when I got the call it was none of my possibilities. I have been called to serve in BARI LIBERTà. I AM GOING BACK BABY!!! My new collega is Sorella Mikesell and this will be her 5th transfer!! 

I GET TO GO BACK to all those members, and investigators, and all of those streets! I AM SO EXCITED! Today I am writing you from Bari because I am here, in my old internet point :) YAY! 
Sorella Mikesell is the best! From the hour I have spent with her. SHe is very chill. ANd she has curly hair as expected since she is my collega. I hope when You read this email you freak out as much as I have. 

I love all the people at Cosenza so much. They are such open and warm people. I am going to miss them. We saw one of our investigators these week. She had just returned from vacation and she was so excited to see us. We talked to her about half of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. And we talked to her about baptism. We had talked a lot about it before she left. She wants to be baptized. She feels the need to be baptized, but she wants to be spontaneous. Also she suffers from anxiety. She does not like WATER. But we talked to her about fixing a date for 28 of September. She agreed to pray about it. SHe is the BEST. She has been so prepared by the Lord. 

We also received so many referrals from the members this week! I loved it. Cosenza is waiting to explode. Last night we had our first English Course with the new program. I do not know if I told you about it but it is great. It is organized, interactive, and only focuses on conversation and pronunciation. The actual class only lasts 20-30 minutes, and they cannot speak any Italian in the group. It is going to help our students so much. We had so many new students. And they are all going to come back. And we had about 8 members come as opposed to 0 before. I am so excited!!

Also Mom and Dad, I got all your packages 2 weeks ago when the mission counselor came down from Rome to visit our branch. I loved the Liahona's and all the artwork. I was not expecting it and it was perfect. I was able to give a lot of it to our investigators in Cosenza! Thank you Thank you Thank you!! 
Man! How we love those Liahonas!
I love you all and I am feel so blessed to have you as my family and friends. Love you lots! 

Sorella Rose Preston